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Recreational Viagra

"... if Viagra is becoming the new drug of choice, the world may end up a much happier place."

Originally designed as aids for those with erectile dysfunction (ED), pills such Viagra are becoming more popular for recreational use. Studies show that the most prominent usage of these drugs is among men aged 18-30 – generally too young to worry about ED. Popping ED pills for fun is very big in the college and club scene, but even professionals just going out for a night on the town are beginning to integrate its use into their entertainment.

So why take this drug? Well, the reasons should be fairly obvious. It takes about an hour for an ED pill to kick in and they generally last for up to six hours. That means that any man can be ready to have sex on-the-fly wherever he happens to be. It turns him into the longer-lasting, robust-stamina lover that he wants to be. When you’re going out for a night of drinking, the effects of alcohol can be less than conducive to sexual activity, and so ED pills offer a quick option for those who manage to get lucky.

The main problem is that these pills are becoming a drug of choice among many. Though the side effects are minor, they can include such annoyances as sleeping problems, vision problems, headaches, upset stomach and congestion. The biggest issue comes when people mix ED pills with other drugs. Due to their nature, these pills can cause cardiovascular issues which, when combined with certain drugs, can lead to hospitalization and even death.

This is further heightened by the fact that many younger people in college environments are succumbing to peer pressure and taking the pills without truly understanding how they work. Also, people who don’t wish to go the standard route and get a prescription will often buy their ED pills online or through other illicit means, which means they may not get exactly what they ordered. They may, in fact, get something harmful.

On the plus side, if Viagra is becoming the new drug of choice, the world may end up a much happier place. Everyone would be getting laid instead of baking their brains or getting looped up and hurting someone. Aside from a little chaffing and some lost sleep, ED pills seem a much better way to go than cocaine or ecstasy. As long as one makes sure to do their research and become knowledgeable about the drug, they can experience it safely for both practical and recreational purposes

Accepting Fetishism

A sexual fetish, defined, is an object or situation which causes sexual arousal in a person. Essentially, anything can take on the quality of a fetish if it causes arousal. Some popularly known fetishes consist of objects such as costumes, handcuffs, fishnets and shoes or activities like domination, submission and spanking. The variety of fetishes is far too long to list.

At one point in history (and even to this present day) fetishes were considered to be psychological problems. Those studying them sought to link these “abnormal” desires with some sort of traumatizing event in the life of the one who had the fetish. Nowadays, fetishes are being looked at in a different light – as an enhancement of the sexual experience.

Everyone has fetishes to one degree or another, though many people suppress them, feeling that the urges they have are not normal or that the person they are with will think less of them if they discover their secret desires. But as long as a fetish does not cause harm to anyone involved nor create such a mental stress that it causes problems outside the bedroom, there is no harm in indulging.

The truth of the matter is that many things considered normal bedroom-play today were once deemed fetishes. Examples include such commonplace practices as the wearing of lingerie or performing oral sex. While there are still people who do not participate in these activities, the general consensus is that they are an ordinary part of most people’s sex lives and therefore acceptable. As people become more sexually liberated, the concept of fetishism ceases to mean as much. In essence, a fetish stops becoming a fetish in the eyes of people when it hits the mainstream.

Still, there are plenty of activities that are considered to be outside the norm and there will always be people who see alternative sexual practices as mental health issues or breaches of proper morality. Whether a person’s preference ranges from something as common as homosexuality or dressing in opposite-gender clothing, or whether dressing up in an animal costume is the fetish of choice, the line between the normal and abnormal is drawn by those who consider themselves to be on moral high-ground.

His Point of View on the Trojan Ultra Thin Condom

There is nothing better than good sex, and I personally enjoy every bit of it! But, I also enjoy good, clean, safe sex. I’ve recently tried these new so called state of the art condoms by Trojan; they are called “ultra-thin”, therefore, the name immediately intrigued me.

Nothing is more desirable than having sex and actually feeling every bit of it, without having to feel as is your making love with a garbage bag on. Some guys don’t like wearing them not only because of the process of putting one on, it sort of takes away from the moment. From, “oh yeah baby I’m turned on!”; clothes are flying off everywhere, you’re ready to engage with your partner and there’s always the “Hold on” part in the middle of everything which to some men takes away from the foreplay and that can be crucial in some situations.

The other reason is the comfort and the feel. Some condoms to men don’t cut it; while the woman is getting pleasure, he is not because he is not really getting to feel his partner. To aomw, this makes for a very unpleasant experience.

So, when I heard about the new ultra-thin condoms I had to give it a try! The experience was amazing; it was as if I really was not wearing anything but my naked skin. I enjoyed every moment until the end without any discomfort, I was pleased and so was she. I totally recommend every man who wants to enjoy the feel of sex, along with your partner, to use the new ultra-thin Trojan condoms.

Sensual Massage – Discovering Your Partner’s Body

Long a staple of Eastern medicine, the art of massage is a growing trend in the West. It has, unfortunately, been associated with prostitution over the years and has taken some time to rid itself of these old assumptions. Nowadays, massage is done more for relaxation and physical therapy than for sex, though there is no need for it to only occupy that particular niche.

Massage is a sensual art, and for that reason can be easily integrated into sexual activity. It can be the perfect way to relieve the stress of the day from a partner and work them up for something more. Stress is a major killer of the human sex drive, and so the less stress, the more likely that someone will be accepting of something more intimate.

This art is more than just a way to work your partner up, however. Giving a massage can increase your knowledge of a partner’s body in such areas as the pressure levels that they enjoy, the different areas where they prefer to be touched and the effects that each type of contact has on them. All of these can teach quite a bit about what your partner considers to be sensual and what they do not.

By studying certain techniques, the massage can be a form of foreplay. There are several erogenous zones on the body that can be used to transition from a stress-relieving massage to sex. The most common of these areas include the back of the knee, collar bone, stomach, back of the neck and ears. These are, of course, aside from the more obvious areas such as breasts and genitals.

When used together, massage and sex can create a total relaxation experience that brings two people closer. There are plenty of instructional books and videos available for those just starting out in massage, many of them with a sensual focus. Given some time and effort, discovering all about your partner’s body will pay off in the long run.

How Often?

How often is often in the land of sex? You hear men discuss how little they get it and women who are comfortable with the amount of time that they get it. What is a happy medium between the two?

What do you consider often? Once a week, three times a week or once or more a day? The problem in many couples is their levels of satisfaction are different. One person in a couple may think once a week is often while the other may not have that same opinion. This is where we need to have a little communication within the relationship. Understanding what your partner’s expectations are.

The factor of the day to day life; plays a role in one or both parties in the relationship feeling up to having sex. If you have been ripping and running all day after kids, plus working a full time job, daily sex may not be what you are in the mood for. This is where understanding comes in from your partner. Shucks, you may not feel very sexy after everything you’ve done all day.

How do you make that compromise? First, you need to understand what’s going on in each others lives to appreciate the answers you get when it comes to sex. Don’t take it so personal if the answer is no, he or she may really be just too tired. Do your best to make some time for just the two of you. Set up date nights,etc. that may allow a bit or relaxing and romancing to take place and get you both in the mood. Discuss what you would like to see happen in the bedroom and how often with your partner.

Communication is the key to happiness in all aspects of life. You will never find someone to meet your expectations in or out of the bedroom; if you never relay what it is they are.

It's Never Easy Saying You Want More

Whether you just started dating someone or you have been in a relationship for a while; it can be hard to communicate to your partner what you would like to happen in the bedroom. You may be happy with the way things are going but you wish there was just a little more spice. It can be embarrassing to state that you want something more. You could be afraid that your partner may feel as though you think they are not good enough. If you continue to say nothing, your underlying urge will never be satisfied.

It is important to feel comfortable to communicate to your partner. They may actually be having the same feelings as you but, do not know how to bring the topic up. Maybe things have been one way for a long time and you simply want to change things up, let your partner in on your fantasies. They may be more than willing to accommodate your thoughts.

Bring up topics surrounding what it is you are wanting to try and see what their reaction is. Slowly work your way to asking. See if your partner is open minded by their reaction. Many people assume that if you are intimate with someone that they know you through and through. This is not always the case. Your mind in my opinion, is the most intimate part of one’s self. Your thoughts trigger your physical connections and actions. If you can share even your nastiest of thoughts, you are then truly being intimate with your partner.

Try to open up and share who you truly are with the one you choose. It may be a slow process allowing yourself to open up but, you will certainly be happy when you are completely satisfied in the bedroom, physically, emotional and mentally.

Same Sex Marriage

And the Big Deal Is?

I keep reading about controversy surrounding same-sex marriages. I have to wonder, who is it really hurting? Homosexuality has been practiced for centuries both openly and behind closed doors. From my stand point, being gay or lesbian is just another path of life.

As with any relationship that survives enough trials and tribulations with a foundation of love, marriage is simply the next step. After removing supposed offenses against religion, what, exactly is wrong with two people in love getting married? As far as religion goes, if the homosexual couple is not interfering in your life why should you interfere in theirs? Further, who says that they follow your religion? Even if they do follow your religion, are they interpreting it the same way you do? Homosexual couples do come into heterosexual bedrooms to dictate religion or sex education. Why is it okay for heterosexuals to enter homosexual bedrooms and try to tell them how to live?

Some people say that being gay or lesbian is a bad influence on children. Children of homosexual couples are not taught to be homosexual, they are simple taught that the difference between their family unit and those of their friends. Being the child of a homosexual couple does not automatically make the child any less of a child. Children are suppose to be taught values, morals, the difference between right and wrong as well as good and bad; as long as the children of gay marriages are being taught these things where is the harm?

Being a country that cannot keep its own morality cohesive, who are we to give lessons in morality to individuals? Whatever happened to live and let live? In my experience the average couple living their lives, regardless of being straight or gay, is simply living their lives. They are not out looking to cause harm or turn the world to their way of thinking; they are just going about the day to day business of living.

We watch television, shows like Star Trek and Stargate, and do not have any problems with humans marrying aliens that look like us. Many often wonder about life on other worlds and how many of those life forms are similar in design to our own. Why is it we can accept an inter-species relationship easier that we can accept a same sex relationship? Is there a misconception that homosexuality is limited to the human race? It’s not. Homosexuality is practiced throughout the animal kingdom. Chances are it is also practiced in off-world species as well.

Maybe the people who yell the loudest about same sex marriages are afraid. Maybe they see something of themselves in the people who choose that option. Maybe they are afraid that they are the ones not quite right when they view the happiness of a same sex couple. Sooner or later every person identifies with another person crossing their path. Identifying with another person does not mean that you are them or want to be them; identifying simply gives you a moment or two of understanding and maybe even triggers your compassion button.

I believe that when people start fixing their own problems within their own homes and have come up with successful solutions that resulted in the perfect family unit then and only then can they begin to give advice to others on how to go about living. Until then it is best to live and let live.

The Oops! in Sex

Embarrassing Moments During Intimacy

We are human. As humans we have moments in time that embarrass us. Some moments are more humiliating than others while some are simply human.

Sex is a prime time for our humanity and all of its indelicate nature to catch us off guard and send the blush of embarrassment from the tips of our toes to the roots of our hair. Everyone has moments where the wind passed during an intimate act or where we have been clumsy during sexual acrobatics. These are our “oops” moments. We never intend for it to happen nor do we intentionally set out to create them; they just happen.

It is up to the players as to how they handle these moments. Some of us hide in the bathroom while others laugh it off. Some people opt to disappear and never be heard from again while others choose to remember the humor of prior gaffs. Any way we go about it we deal – or not.

Accidental mishaps occur during our most intimate moments because we are relaxed and more interested in each other than we are in keeping reign on our bodies. A partner that understands you knows that unexpected sounds may make themselves known in the most obtrusive of ways. It’s okay. Your partner is human, too. They have indelicate instances as well.

Learn to laugh at your humanity. The less you are intimidated by these brief minutes of unintentional rude behavior the sooner you can shake them off and pick up where you and your partner left off. Everyone has times when they fart or fall off the bed; they just don’t talk about them publicly. That is unless it was really funny. Sex is sex. A friend of mine once used the term “bumping uglies” when referring to sex. There is more truth in that phrase than most realize. There is nothing pretty about sex. There may be a beauty to sex found in the connection between two people but it is not a pretty sight.

So embrace your body and theirs in all of its repulsive glory and have fun.

West Coast Fetish Ball

Welcome to the First Annual West Coast Fetish Ball.

Fetish balls are exactly as they sound; a chance to walk on the wild side with all of you naughty secrets and fantasies. It’s also a chance to check out new concepts, meet new people, and see the latest fetish fashions. Since this one falls in December, it presents a pleasant diversion from all of those Christmas parties so popular this time of year.

2011 will host the first ever West Coast Fetish Ball on December 28^th at the Henry Fonda Theatre (The Music Box) in Hollywood. Masuimi Max will be present as the Mistress of ceremonies while Emily Marilyn, fetish cover girl, will be performing throughout the night. There will be a fashion show sponsored by SyrenLatex.com for fetish aficionados to see the latest in fetish wear on the lovely Midori and Kumii during their brief stay in the U.S. Music will be brought to the event courtesy of Matthew Grim, Danny Craver, DJ Robo, Jason², Reverend Boon, and DJ Catalyst Echo for an evening of dancing and twining.

The night promises to be sexy and playful especially for those who have more of a taste to participate than watch. Those choosing to be interactive while exhibiting their wares for others can enjoy themselves at the bondage stations. They might go gently for first timers, depends on who you play with and what you beg for.

Regrettably, as of November 17, 2011 tickets were no longer available online. Don’t be disappointed, they will be selling tickets at the door the night of the event between 9:00 pm and 2:30 am. The event will be held at 6126 Hollywood Boulevard, Hollywood, California. More information on the ball can be found at www.westcoastfetishball.com.

Thank you SyrenLatex.com, Stockroom.com, Rubber Dynasty, and Simon Blaise of Plastic Wrap Suspension for supporting the beginning of what looks to be a long standing tradition for years to come.

The Gangsta of Love: Being Prosecuted for Failing to Disclose His HIV Diagnosis to His Sex Partners

Not a funny story.

OMG-Sex usually features the strange, the bizarre, and the slightly funny sex news; today’s sex news doesn’t quite fit into any of the categories above. A man in Ohio has been charged with a felonious assault for having what appears to be consensual sex with several women.

The reason for the charge?

The man had HIV, had sex with multiple partners, and did not tell any of the women that he had sex with. This is against the law in the great state of Ohio. Anyone diagnosed with HIV in Ohio is legally bound to tell the person that they are having sex with that they have been infected with HIV.

Like I said, this is not a funny story. Andre Davis, who is a former professional wrestler known as “The Gangsta of Love” is being prosecuted on no less than 15 separate counts of felonious assault for his silence to 12 different women about his HIV status.

Davis’ defense attorney doesn’t seem to have all that strong of a defense in the case; he is actually blaming the women for “not taking adequate precautions against STDs.” Davis was diagnosed with HIV in 2009, but his attorney is claiming that it will be impossible for the prosecutors to prove that the former wrestler and scum of the Earth actually has HIV. I don’t quite understand how the attorney really thinks that either of those arguments will get Davis off the hook for his reprehensible and criminal actions.

At least 300 other individuals have been prosecuted in Ohio and other states for the same reason; failing to disclose an HIV diagnosis is criminal in many states in the United States, which is definitely a positive thing.

I’m pretty sure that the Gangsta of Love’s weak defense as described by his defense attorney won’t help Andre Davis in his trial. I think it’s also a tragedy that he had sex with so many women without disclosing his HIV diagnosis. The only positive thing about the tragic affair is that the more men who are prosecuted for failure to disclose the fact the they have HIV, the more men will realize that they can’t get away with lying to their sexual partners.

Jeopardizing lives for the sake of having sex without a condom is not just a mistake, it’s a potentially fatal mistake for the victims.

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