Whether you just started dating someone or you have been in a relationship for a while; it can be hard to communicate to your partner what you would like to happen in the bedroom. You may be happy with the way things are going but you wish there was just a little more spice. It can be embarrassing to state that you want something more. You could be afraid that your partner may feel as though you think they are not good enough. If you continue to say nothing, your underlying urge will never be satisfied.

It is important to feel comfortable to communicate to your partner. They may actually be having the same feelings as you but, do not know how to bring the topic up. Maybe things have been one way for a long time and you simply want to change things up, let your partner in on your fantasies. They may be more than willing to accommodate your thoughts.

Bring up topics surrounding what it is you are wanting to try and see what their reaction is. Slowly work your way to asking. See if your partner is open minded by their reaction. Many people assume that if you are intimate with someone that they know you through and through. This is not always the case. Your mind in my opinion, is the most intimate part of one’s self. Your thoughts trigger your physical connections and actions. If you can share even your nastiest of thoughts, you are then truly being intimate with your partner.

Try to open up and share who you truly are with the one you choose. It may be a slow process allowing yourself to open up but, you will certainly be happy when you are completely satisfied in the bedroom, physically, emotional and mentally.