Most people consider seduction the equivalent of foreplay.  By definition, seduction is the act of persuasion leading to sexual intercourse. The reality is seduction is so much more. Seduction starts with a look followed by desire then the chase. Seducing someone is an art. Enticement requires passion without which there cannot be a successful seduction.

Fleeting looks are often the start of a tantalizing journey. A slow smile, a quiet laugh, and a shy “hello” lead to a desire to know a person. Getting to know them cultivates a willingness to see them pleased. Then the chase begins. In slow seductions the chase takes time and patience but can be ever so rewarding. Slight touches here, there, a breath caressing an ear or maybe a neck. Add a little distance that creates a lovely tension making the allure and the air tingle with anticipation. A slow seduction can take hours, days, and even weeks before it’s completed.

There is a fire in seduction that has the potential to burn hot and immediate. Some clash together quickly to ease the tension. Others dance around each other for a bit knowing what the dance is leading up to. Heat so deep you can feel it emanating from each other. Looks that can set the room ablaze and make witnesses blush leaving a wake of longing so tangible it’s almost physical in its presence.

Above all else, seduction is a state of mind and being between two people. Is seduction a pursuit? Is it an invitation? The lines between pursuit and invitation may become blurred and blended leaving the players to wonder who is leading and who’s following. Maybe it’s a combination of both. It is possible you cannot be a party to one without being party to the other. Either way seduction is a risk and an adventure. Take the risk and thoroughly enjoy the adventure.