Let’s talk about sex

Let’s talk about sex

Or at least talk about it with your bedmate.

When was the last time you got lucky in between the sheets?  And when was the last time you talked about sex with your partner?  If you are like most people, the last time you discussed sex with your bedmate was probably not anywhere nearly as recent as the last time the two of you had sex with each other.

Sex is everywhere these days.  It is constantly portrayed in the movies and TV shows, it is suggested in print ads and you probably even talk about it with some of your closest friends.  Yet, even with sex going mainstream, many couples still shy away from having an open discussion with each other about sex. 

If you think about it, it is actually sort of funny.  People feel okay about sharing their intimate details with friends who they will probably never get down and dirty with.   Yet they feel awkward about discussing sex with someone who they are fine being naked in front of.  It is rather silly, isn’t it? 

As awkward as it might feel to talk about sex with your bedmate, it is something that you really should try to do.  Talking to friends or strangers won’t help improve your sex life much, but talking to your sex partner about it will. 

Let your bedmate know what drives you crazy, and what you can do without.  Then listen to what your lover has to say about the matter as well.  Not only will it bring the two of you closer as a couple, but it will also help to bring your sex life to a whole new level.